feat: customizable dashboard layout (#32)

Users can now show/hide widgets and reorder them via a settings button
in the greeting header. Configuration is persisted server-side in
sync_config (dashboard_widgets key) and shared across all family members.

- Greeting widget gets a settings icon button opening a customize modal
- Modal lists all widgets (tasks, calendar, shopping, meals, notes,
  weather) with toggle switches and up/down reorder buttons
- Reset to default layout available in the modal
- GET /preferences now returns dashboard_widgets; PUT accepts it
- All 10 locales updated with new i18n keys

package.json

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 {
   "name": "oikos",
-  "version": "0.18.0",
+  "version": "0.18.1",
   "description": "Self-hosted family planner - calendar, tasks, shopping, meal planning, budget and more. Private, open-source, no subscription.",
   "main": "server/index.js",
   "type": "module",