feat: add flexible reminder options for birthdays

Add support for customizable birthday reminders with preset offsets
(none, at time, 15min, 1h, 1d, 2d, 1w, 2w) and custom intervals.
Users can now configure when to be reminded of upcoming birthdays.

- Add migration 31: reminder_offset, reminder_custom_amount, reminder_custom_unit to birthdays table
- Update POST/PUT /birthdays routes to accept reminder fields
- Add getOffsetMinutes() helper in birthday service
- Update birthdayReminderAt() to calculate reminder time with offset
- Modify syncBirthdayReminder() to handle empty offset (no reminder)
- Add renderBirthdayReminderSection() UI component
- Move reminder-custom CSS from calendar.css to reminders.css
- Add protocol check to service worker (non-http protocol guard)

All translations already present in de.json.
Tests: 109 passing, 0 failing.

Co-Authored-By: Rafael Foster <rafaelfoster@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

public/pages/birthdays.js

@@ -20,6 +20,50 @@ function initials(name) {
     .join('') || '?';
 }
 
+const REMINDER_OFFSETS = () => [
+  { value: '',     label: t('reminders.offsetNone')   },
+  { value: '0',    label: t('reminders.offsetAtTime') },
+  { value: '15',   label: t('reminders.offset15min')  },
+  { value: '60',   label: t('reminders.offset1hour')  },
+  { value: '1440', label: t('reminders.offset1day')   },
+  { value: '2880', label: t('reminders.offset2days')  },
+  { value: '10080', label: t('reminders.offset1week') },
+  { value: '20160', label: t('reminders.offset2weeks') },
+  { value: 'custom', label: t('reminders.offsetCustom') },
+];
+
+function renderBirthdayReminderSection(birthday = null) {
+  const currentOffset = birthday?.reminder_offset ?? '0';
+  const customAmount = birthday?.reminder_custom_amount || 1;
+  const customUnit = birthday?.reminder_custom_unit || 'days';
+  return `
+    <div class="reminder-section">
+      <div class="form-group" style="margin:0">
+        <label class="form-label" for="bd-reminder-offset">${t('reminders.offsetLabel')}</label>
+        <select class="form-input" id="bd-reminder-offset" style="min-height:44px">
+          ${REMINDER_OFFSETS().map((o) =>
+            `<option value="${o.value}" ${currentOffset === o.value ? 'selected' : ''}>${esc(o.label)}</option>`
+          ).join('')}
+        </select>
+      </div>
+      <div class="modal-grid modal-grid--2 reminder-custom" id="bd-reminder-custom" ${currentOffset === 'custom' ? '' : 'hidden'}>
+        <div class="form-group" style="margin:0">
+          <label class="form-label" for="bd-reminder-custom-amount">${t('reminders.customAmountLabel')}</label>
+          <input class="form-input" type="number" id="bd-reminder-custom-amount" min="1" max="999" value="${customAmount}">
+        </div>
+        <div class="form-group" style="margin:0">
+          <label class="form-label" for="bd-reminder-custom-unit">${t('reminders.customUnitLabel')}</label>
+          <select class="form-input" id="bd-reminder-custom-unit">
+            <option value="minutes" ${customUnit === 'minutes' ? 'selected' : ''}>${t('reminders.customMinutes')}</option>
+            <option value="hours" ${customUnit === 'hours' ? 'selected' : ''}>${t('reminders.customHours')}</option>
+            <option value="days" ${customUnit === 'days' ? 'selected' : ''}>${t('reminders.customDays')}</option>
+            <option value="weeks" ${customUnit === 'weeks' ? 'selected' : ''}>${t('reminders.customWeeks')}</option>
+          </select>
+        </div>
+      </div>
+    </div>`;
+}
+
 function ageNote(birthday) {
   if (birthday.days_until === 0) return t('birthdays.ageNoteToday', { age: birthday.next_age });
   if (birthday.days_until === 1) return t('birthdays.ageNoteTomorrow', { age: birthday.next_age });
@@ -327,6 +371,7 @@ function openBirthdayModal({ mode, birthday = null }) {
           <label class="form-label" for="bd-notes">${t('birthdays.notesLabel')}</label>
           <textarea class="form-input" id="bd-notes" rows="3" placeholder="${t('birthdays.notesPlaceholder')}">${esc(birthday?.notes || '')}</textarea>
         </div>
+        ${renderBirthdayReminderSection(birthday)}
         <div class="birthday-modal__hint">${t('birthdays.calendarHint')}</div>
         <div class="modal-panel__footer" style="border:none;padding:0;margin-top:var(--space-4)">
           ${isEdit ? `<button class="btn btn--danger" id="bd-delete">${t('common.delete')}</button>` : '<div></div>'}
@@ -365,6 +410,13 @@ function openBirthdayModal({ mode, birthday = null }) {
         if (fileInput) fileInput.value = '';
         renderPreview();
       });
+
+      const reminderOffset = panel.querySelector('#bd-reminder-offset');
+      const reminderCustom = panel.querySelector('#bd-reminder-custom');
+      reminderOffset?.addEventListener('change', () => {
+        if (reminderCustom) reminderCustom.hidden = reminderOffset.value !== 'custom';
+      });
+
       panel.querySelector('#bd-cancel').addEventListener('click', closeModal);
       panel.querySelector('#bd-delete')?.addEventListener('click', async () => {
         closeModal();
@@ -379,6 +431,9 @@ function openBirthdayModal({ mode, birthday = null }) {
           birth_date: birthDate,
           notes: panel.querySelector('#bd-notes').value.trim(),
           photo_data: photoData,
+          reminder_offset: panel.querySelector('#bd-reminder-offset').value,
+          reminder_custom_amount: panel.querySelector('#bd-reminder-custom-amount').value,
+          reminder_custom_unit: panel.querySelector('#bd-reminder-custom-unit').value,
         };
 
         if (!body.name || !body.birth_date || !isDateInputValid(birthDateRaw)) {