feat(shopping): custom categories - add, rename, delete and reorder (#26)

- New DB table shopping_categories (migration v5) seeds 9 default
  categories with Lucide icons and sort_order
- Backend CRUD routes: GET/POST/PUT/DELETE /shopping/categories
  plus PATCH /shopping/categories/reorder
- Category validation now uses DB instead of hardcoded constant;
  items of deleted category are moved to the next available one
- Frontend shopping page loads categories from API, dropdown and
  grouping reflect custom order dynamically
- Settings -> Shopping section: list categories with up/down buttons,
  click-to-rename, delete with confirmation; add new categories inline
- i18n keys added in de/en/sv/it

package.json

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 {
   "name": "oikos",
-  "version": "0.11.9",
+  "version": "0.12.0",
   "description": "Self-hosted family planner - calendar, tasks, shopping, meal planning, budget and more. Private, open-source, no subscription.",
   "main": "server/index.js",
   "type": "module",